Does words really matter?

I was wondering one day that is it really possible if i was deaf and dumb and my husband would understand even my deepest thoughts.That was the time I rushed from my living area to my bedroom to fetch some papers and pen and designed a foolproof game.Where i was the one who played the victim as always and he was to understand my thoughts.A long one hour we spent playing ,cuddling and finally the conclusion was yes, he could understand my thoughts.The results were not just because he love me but because my non verbal communicating power were too strong.The same kind of game is played in the interview room .Where interview is a game amd you are being judged as a victim.You keep  practicising on formulating the best answer for each question but what yoy forget is to practice your body language.

As wise man has said your eyes speaks the truth .Your body language expresses your nervousness or your excitement.So while we are busy preparing our question answer round, why not to spare some 15 minutes to improve our non verbal communication.There are thousands of books and online tests available to improve your gestures and most important thr facial expressions.Girls gear up your smile can be the answer to many unknown questions amd boys dnt be disheartened your charming eyes will help you to create the powrful impact.

Some of the tips even I am mentioning here.

  • Look engaged with a pleasant smile on your face.
  • Do not open your eyes wide to make an eye contact.Soften your eyes to make them look natural.
  • Practice at home in front of mirror.Yes the old method but somehow it helps a lot.
  • Figure out your reactions when you are nervous.May be chewing nails, eyes blinking,rubbing nose etc.Work on those areas.
  • Lift your eyebrows a little, just to ensure that you are having an interesting conversation.

There are endless methods through which you can improvise your non verbal communication.Because words are always the later stage, you connect through your body.The above story was may be enteratining but it has a sense.We connect through our eyes, gestures and positive feel.

Learn,Practice and Improvise.

Thanks for reading the post.All the thoughts and questions will be appreciated in the commemts section.Happy reading.

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